Is it possible to feel happy and sad simultaneously? That is my experience here in Osaka, Japan at the close of the International Academic Forum’s (IAFOR) conference on psychology and the behavioral sciences. As we gathered to take our closing photo, I looked at the faces of my colleagues who have enlivened my days with their enthusiasm about the presentation I made on addiction, insightful questions and comments, and general interest in developing relationships across national divides. I leave with invitations to speak in Malaysia, Israel, and Canada and a sense of pride in knowing that some of my colleagues are inspired by my work. I too feel moved by the passion others bring to their research – the new academics making names for themselves in their fields, the senior professors with history and experience to share, and the graduate students who want to learn about research methods and how to develop a research agenda that can be used to create social justice.
At the same time, I feel a little sad – because I have enjoyed the company of these new friends so much that I would like even just a few more days to share ideas and camaraderie around our common interests of teaching, learning, and helping others live the best lives they can.